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An ex-boyfriend or girlfriend can prove trouble for a budding new relationship. This becomes especially true if one of the partners is less experienced, possessive and/or more sensitive than the other.

Each person has his or her own way in dealing with an ex-boyfriend or girlfriend. While some are OK with remaining friends with their ex, others prefer to avoid their old partners and still others may turn a former relationship into an ongoing contest; expecting their family and friends to choose sides as well. Regardless of how you may decide to deal with an ex-boyfriend or girlfriend, once you start dating bangkok again your new partner should have first priority in your life. For example:

Make sure you are truly over your last boyfriend/ girlfriend – May young men and women restart dating bangkok too soon to show their former loves that they are ‘over’ them. However, this is extremely unfair to the new partner who will have to bear the brunt of any lingering feelings and issues that haven’t as yet been dealt with.

Do not compare your current partner to any pervious loves – this is extremely harmful to a growing bond as it constantly reiterates the presence of a third party between the two of you. Some people have the mistaken notion that it is okay to compare provided the comparison is positive to the current partner. This is certainly not true. Make it clear to your current love that your ex is very much in the past and no way connected to the bond between the two of you. Even if your present boyfriend or girlfriend is the one to bring up the subject, gently guide the conversation to other channels without making it seem like you are trying to hide anything.

Finally, you may also find yourself in the position of having to deal with a lover’s former flame. A mature, confident attitude is the key to successfully handling such a situation. Treat the person as you would any other; trust me, your true love ( รักแท้ ) will definitely appreciate you for your sophisticated approach to the circumstances.
 


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